Swarnim Gujarat Anthem..

http://youtu.be/DzCIepchw0k

Jana Gana Mana National Anthem of India by Jagjit Singh..

Mile Sur Mera Tumhara..

Dealing with Insult..

Buddha explained how to handle insult and maintain compassion.

One day Buddha was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have no right teaching others," he shouted. "You are as stupid as everyone else. You are nothing but a fake."

Buddha was not upset by these insults. Instead he asked the young man "Tell me, if you buy a gift for someone, and that person does not take it, to whom does the gift belong?"

The man was surprised to be asked such a strange question and answered, "It would belong to me, because I bought the gift."

The Buddha smiled and said, "That is correct. And it is exactly the same with your anger. If you become angry with me and I do not get insulted, then the anger falls back on you. You are then the only one who becomes unhappy, not me. All you have done is hurt yourself."

"If you want to stop hurting yourself, you must get rid of your anger and become loving instead. When you hate others, you yourself become unhappy. But when you love others, everyone is happy."

The young man listened closely to these wise words of the Buddha. "You are right, o Enlightened One, "he said. "Please teach me the path of love. I wish to become your follower."

The Buddha answered kindly, "Of course. I teach anyone who truly wants to learn. Come with me."

A Friend..

Sometimes, with luck, we find the kind of true friend, male or female, that appears only two or three times in a lucky lifetime, one that will winter us and summer us, grieve, rejoice, and travel with us.

The Power of Words..

This short film illustrates the power of words to radically change your message and your effect upon the world.

Beautiful Quotes..

If you are right then there is no need to get angry,

And if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry.

Patience with family is love,

Patience with others is respect,

Patience with self is confidence and

Patience with GOD is faith.

Never Think Hard about PAST,

It brings Tears...

Don't Think more about FUTURE,

It brings Fears...

Live this Moment with a Smile,

It brings Cheers.!!!!

Every test in our life makes us bitter or better,

Every problem comes to make us or break us,

Choice is our whether we become victim or victorious !!!

Search a beautiful heart not a beautiful face.

Beautiful things are not always good

but good things are always beautiful.

Read it even if you don't want to ...

Let me explain how the results in your life are rooted in one single factor - your choices

Like it or not, good or bad, your accumulated choices have added up to your current waistline, business success, relationship strength and bank balance.

Your choices created your problems and the only way out of them is to start, and stick to, making new choices.

But then you ask, How do I know what the right choices are?

Here's a simple formula:

When in doubt, choose the harder task or what you don't want to do-that's usually exactly what you should do. Take the path of MOST resistance.

Put it this way: If you are disappointed in any area of your life, whatever choices you have been making aren't working.

Here is the force you are fighting: You and your brain are creatures of habit. You simply talk yourself into taking the easy, low resistance and comfortable route. Like the pull of a rushing river, your unconscious habits continue to take you downstream in the wrong direction. To change your direction you will need to swim upstream, against the resistance of the rushing river, against your habitual tendency.

Low Resistance:

• Going along with the gossip
• Surrendering to peer pressure
• Saying yes to needless obligations
• Submitting to the crying demands of your children
• Starting your new program on "Monday" (instead of today)
• Reacting in anger
• Holding a grudge
• Giving the 'silent treatment'

High Resistance:

• Going to the gym when you don't feel like it
• Forgiving someone who wronged you
• Feeling the fear and doing it anyway
• Admitting you were wrong and apologizing
• Ordering the salad when you want the burger
• Saying no to (yet another) shot of tequila
• Calling that big, scary big prospect (again and again)

If you want to finally obtain what's missing from your life, you need to stop always doing what you feel like doing and start doing the things that make you uncomfortable, the stuff you avoid, and the things that you think are hard.

If you dedicate yourself to only doing the things you don't want to do, all day long, your results would shock and amaze you and everyone around you.

Make a list of the things you avoid, postpone and hate doing, but you know you should. If you attack those today, your life will change. What's uncomfortable is good. It only feels wrong at the start because you have an automatic bias toward the easy. Fight that tendency. Swim upstream.

Take the path of most resistance.